Since January, I've been losing some of my best friends. First, it started when two of my besties, Anna and Linda, since kindergarten started hanging out with a couple of girls in my class. Then it turned into a fully fledged clique. They do EVERYTHING together now! Next (more recently), I started making more friends but they started getting pis**d off at me because I am sometimes ignorant and a jerk. After that (the most recently), my best friend, Mandy, started getting really colose to this girl in her class named Gail. She just had a sleepover with her AND they went shopping. It takes me soooo much effort to convince Mandy to go shopping with me but suddenly Gail can make she go just like that?!? I don't know what I'd do without Mandy. She's been with me through a lot and I love sooooo much. I think it would just hurt too much if I lost her. I've told her how I felt but I don't know if she understands the way I feel. I f anyone has had or does have a situation like me, please help me! I don't think I can cope well enough with this!~Wannabe
Throughout your life, you're bound to grow distant from some friends but you'll also gain new ones. Like you, your friends' interests are changing as they get older and this will sometimes cause you to grow distant from one another. You shouldn't get upset when one of your friends seems to be getting close to someone else. You kinda just have to except that. Getting mad at them for it will only distance you from them more.
ReplyDeleteIf you know you are sometimes a jerk to your friends, don't you think you should try and change that? Because if you continue on doing that your friends aren't going to want to hang around.
ReplyDeleteIf you have read my previous and new posts, you will that I don't try to be a jerk, I just act like one because that's who I am, I guess. I really don't want to be a jerk, but sometimes I'm just a bit ignorant and it leads to me being a jerk.
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