My friend, Danielle, got asked out a couple days ago by a guy she really liked. I was really happy for her and I'm already kinda meddling in their relationship (i.e. dragging Danielle to to her bf so they they can talk, etc. (nothing horrible like trying break them up or anything like that!)). Actually, as it turns out, Danielle's boyfriend, Leo, is best friends with Nate. So three of my closest friends (Mandy, Tory and now Danielle) have boyfriends which kinda leaves me and Chloe, my other friend. Oh and I just learned today that my sister got asked out too. I would have liked to have known, even though it's not really my business. It's like everybody has a boyfriend now! A thought that kept popping up in my head all day was Am I unlovable? Is there no guy out there that likes me? I know it sounds pathetic and stuff because I'm in grade 8 but I feel almost left out kinda and left behind and alone. My two BFFs have boyfriends and so do other close friends and my sister but I'm the odd one out. As I'm writing this, I've been thinking about reasons why any guy might like me but really all I've been around guys is obnoxious and a jerk or really stupid. Hopefully I do have a 'soul-mate' out there but if not, than that really sucks.~Wannabe
Honestly, don't worry too much about guys, especially in middle school. If you start worrying about it too much you're going to run into problems, trust me. Just enjoy life for now and one day you'll find someone who's right for you and he'll like you back. It'll be worth the wait then, and you won't have spent the time up until then obsessing over not having a boyfriend, instead you'll have enjoyed life. Life is far too short to worry about stuff like this, especially when you're still fairly young.
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